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      76 While you are talking, point not with your finger at him of whom you discourse, nor approach too near him to whom you talk especially to his face.

      77 Treat with men at fit times about business and whisper not in the company of others.

      78 Make no comparisons and if any of the company be commended for any brave act of virtue, commend not another for the same.

      79 Be not apt to relate news if you know not the truth thereof. In discoursing of things you have heard, name not your author always; a secret discover not.

      80 Be not tedious in discourse or in reading unless you find the company pleased therewith.

      81 Be not curious to know the affairs of others, neither approach those that speak in private.

      82 Undertake not what you cannot perform but be careful to keep your promise.

      83 When you deliver a matter do it without passion and with discretion, however mean the person be you do it to.

      84 When your superiors talk to anybody hear not neither speak nor laugh.

      85 In company of those of higher quality than yourself, speak not ‘til you are asked a question, then stand upright, put off your hat and answer in few words.

      86 In disputes, be not so desirous to overcome as not to give liberty to each one to deliver his opinion and submit to the judgment of the major part, specially if they are judges of the dispute.

      87 [damaged manuscript] as becomes a man grave, settled, and attentive [damaged manuscript] [pre]dict not at every turn what others say.

      88 Be not diverse in discourse; make not many digressions; nor repeat often the same manner of discourse.

      89 Speak not evil of the absent, for it is unjust.

      90 Being set at meat scratch not, neither spit, cough, or blow your nose except there’s a necessity for it.

      91 Make no show of taking great delight in your victuals; feed not with greediness; eat your bread with a knife; lean not on the table; neither find fault with what you eat.

      92 Take no salt or cut bread with your knife greasy.

      93 Entertaining anyone at table it is decent to present him with meat; undertake not to help others undesired by the master.

      94 If you soak bread in the sauce, let it be no more than what you put in your mouth at a time and blow not your broth at table; let it stay till cools of itself.

      95 Put not your meat to your mouth with your knife in your hand; neither spit forth the stones of any fruit pie upon a dish nor cast anything under the table.

      96 It’s unbecoming to heap much to one’s meat; keep your fingers clean; when foul wipe them on a corner of your table napkin.

      97 Put not another bite into your mouth till the former be swallowed; let not your morsels be too big.

      98 Drink not nor talk with your mouth full; neither gaze about you while you are a drinking.

      99 Drink not too leisurely nor yet too hastily. Before and after drinking wipe your lips; breathe not then or ever with too great a noise, for it is an evil.

      100 Cleanse not your teeth with the table cloth napkin, fork, or knife; but if others do it, let it be done without a peep to them.

      101 Rinse not your mouth in the presence of others.

      102 It is out of use to call upon the company often to eat; nor need you drink to others every time you drink.

      103 In company of your betters be not [damaged manuscript] than they are; lay not your arm but [damaged manuscript].

      104 It belongs to the chiefest in company to unfold his napkin and fall to meat first; but he ought then to begin in time and to dispatch with dexterity that the slowest may have time allowed him.

      105 Be not angry at table whatever happens and if you have reason to be so, show it not but on a cheerful countenance especially if there be strangers, for good humor makes one dish of meat and whey.

      106 Set not yourself at the upper of the table but if it be your due, or that the master of the house will have it so, contend not, lest you should trouble the company.

      107 If others talk at table be attentive but talk not with meat in your mouth.

      108 When you speak of God or his Attributes, let it be seriously; reverence, honor and obey your natural parents although they be poor.

      109 Let your recreations be manful not sinful.

      110 Labor to keep alive in your breast that little spark of celestial fire called conscience.

       The Rules of Bravery and Liberty 1756–1775

       WHEN Washington accepted the command of the Virginia militia, which was enlisted in the service of King George to prosecute the war against the French forces in 1756, the twenty-four-year-old commander could conceive no further ambition than “by rules of unerring bravery” to merit the favor of his sovereign. He seemed singularly self-possessed. Perhaps for this reason, biographers and historians have sometimes described Washington as “a born aristocrat”; at any rate, Washington believed in an adherence to eighteenth-century principles of enlightened behavior. He dedicated himself to putting a noble and virtuous code of conduct into practice in his own life. Some historians see his truly classical behavior as the real source of his greatness.

       Washington’s characteristic attitude, punctilious in matters of just respect, colored his early career in a manner which cannot be more than dimly evoked in this summary presentation of those years which culminated in his being named Commander-in-Chief of the Continental Army in 1775. That attitude made a large contribution to his developing political ideas. In light of the growing revolution of the colonies, these may seem a beginning; but in fact they reflect a richer course of development.

       Washington was an indefatigable letter-writer and diarist, and thus one finds the principal facts about Washington’s contribution to the founding of the United States related in his own words. We find here the idea of an American union, which motivated Washington throughout the thirty years (1769–1799) of active citizenship during which he guided his country. And from the first moment of the Revolution, Washington shows a thoughtful appreciation of liberty and its political significance.

       ADDRESS TO HIS COMMAND

       August 1756

       Loyalty to the King

      You see, gentlemen soldiers, that it hath pleased our most gracious sovereign to declare war in form against the French King, and (for divers good causes, but more particularly for their ambitious usurpations and encroachments on his American dominions) to pronounce all the said French King’s subjects and vassals to be enemies to his crown and dignity; and hath willed and required all his subjects and people, and in a more especial manner commanded his captain-general of his forces, his governors, and all other his commanders and officers, to do and execute all acts of hostility in the prosecution of, this just and honorable war. And though our utmost endeavors can contribute but little to the advancement of his Majesty’s honor and the interest of his governments, yet let us show our willing obedience to the

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