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      Our current way of doing things – the ‘me culture’ – isn’t working.

      The world we all share is more divided and unequal than ever.

      Rates of anxiety, depression and self-harm among women are rocketing. And the hard-fought-for rights that we, as women, thought we’d finally won are once again under renewed attack.

      Nearly 800 million people live in hunger and yet those with plenty battle with obesity and depression.

      Every minute one woman dies needlessly in childbirth, while elsewhere in the world another woman spends thousands on cosmetic surgery because she isn’t able to feel comfortable with how she’s ageing.

      Violence against women is rising, yet at the same time refuge services – especially for black and minority ethnic women – are being cut.¹

      The gap between rich and poor is widening, causing social division and ill health,² but instead of investment and redistribution we have cuts and austerity.

      Large swathes of humanity are threatened by climate change, yet our governments fear tackling it lest they offend big business and consumers.

      The list goes on and on, and every one of us knows that it’s crazy and it’s wrong.

      Yet instead of joining together, we often find ourselves isolated and in competition. Trying to put a positive gloss on our lives to disguise the huge gap between how things look externally and how they feel inside. Not able to lift our eyes to the horizon and deal with the bigger issues because we each already have so much on our plate.

      There is a different way of doing things. One that combines our own emotional and spiritual healing with active engagement with the world around us.

      Our current political systems have failed us, but it’s not possible to heal the divisions in our world without also healing the wounds which drive them. We can’t heal our broken system by sitting in judgement. Within each of us lie the seeds of intolerance and hate. If we simply declare others wrong and ourselves right we deepen the divide. But, to remain silent is also not an option – it leaves us complicit.

      This path – of necessity – involves a lot of internal work but it is work that will ultimately bring us together.

      WE is a movement for change, a manifesto for a female-led revolution: a quiet, peaceful about-face that doesn’t require the consent of those in power. It just asks each of us, one woman at a time, to be the change and take the journey from me to WE.

       HOW WE WORKS

      ‘We must not wish for the disappearance of our troubles but for the grace to transform them.’

      SIMONE WEIL

      WE combines spirituality, politics and psychology. We’re often taught to compartmentalize them, but they are intimately connected.

      Unless we work across all three disciplines, it’s impossible to achieve lasting, sustainable change. It’s not possible to get happy without getting kind, we can’t be spiritually fulfilled without rolling up our sleeves and helping others, and we can’t help others without healing ourselves.

      This is not a self-help book to enable you to get more out of life or a spiritual text to encourage you to float above your difficulties. Nor is it a lecture on how to try harder! It is an intensely practical guide to healing and activism from the heart.

      Each of the Nine Principles in this book can be applied to your own life and to the world at large. Their impact is cumulative. Once you’ve completed the process, you’ll have a set of tools that will enable you to handle whatever life throws your way.

      Most importantly, underpinning all WE’s principles is an ancient rule that can be found in almost every ethical, spiritual and religious tradition: the Golden Rule.

      At its simplest, the Golden Rule states that we should treat each other as we would like to be treated ourselves – in other words, with love. It is a simple rule that has the power to change everything.

      Our goal in taking this journey isn’t individual happiness – though that comes as a welcome by-product. It is to live in a way that is true to our inner calling. A way that is kind and just. That leads to personal fulfilment and helps other women across the planet.

       WHY WE WROTE WE

      ‘History has shown us that courage can be contagious and hope can take on a life of its own.’

      MICHELLE OBAMA

      This book doesn’t come from lofty heights. It comes from two friends who have stumbled along together, trying, failing, crying, laughing, learning and trying again.

      It is about a set of principles that led us out of darkness, from a place where both of us were in despair, into a way of life that has meaning and purpose.

      We discovered the hard way that no amount of external success could fix how we felt on the inside. The more we had, the more we felt we needed to get. No matter what we achieved, it didn’t make us happy. It made us feel guilty that even with the gifts and luck we’d been given, we couldn’t seem to make life work.

      In the end we’d both become dependent on a whole host of unhealthy crutches – alcohol, drugs, work, food,

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